Wendy Hanby’s Christmas Cards

Late yesterday afternoon after I’d published this post about Wendy Hanby  Mr Dancing went up into the loft in search of the boxes of Christmas decorations, amongst which I knew there were some of Wendy’s Christmas cards.  There must be others in the house somewhere so I’ll add them if and when I come across them.

I particularly like the first one of her and Jim’s home because it reminds me of the times we went through the double set of gates to the cottage to visit.

It’s good to have the cards here rather than up in the loft where I only get to see them once a year.


“The past is a foreign country”

Way back in 1975 we were looking for a dog – not just any dog.

At that time, as now, I lived by a canal.  One day when I was travelling along the Grand Western Canal on a horse-drawn barge, suddenly, there appeared on the tow-path, at the top of a flight of steps, a magnificent, noble-looking, long-haired dog which looked right at me.  I’d never seen a dog like it before and, after some research, discovered that it was an English Setter.

We searched for this elusive (to us) breed and our quest took us to a farm in Totnes in South Devon, where we were shown a rather ragged-looking, under-nourished “almost” Setter. We asked whether there were others, were pointed in the direction of a brown-looking dog and told “What about this one?  They’re all the same.”  The vibes were not good, we left immediately and I realised that this must have been a puppy farm.

So … the search began in earnest for a REAL English Setter and, before long, on 14 June 1975, we found ourselves in a cottage nestling into a hillside on the edge of Dartmoor.  We had come to visit Jim and Wendy Hanby, breeders of English, Irish and Gordon Setters.  They had 3 puppies available, 2 of which they were going to keep themselves.

Before we got ANYWHERE, we were subjected to what seemed like The Spanish Inquisition.  Where was this puppy going to be housed?  Did we work?  What sort of garden did we have?  What sort of bed would the dog have? Where would we walk it? The questions went on and on – a little daunting but we were thoroughly scutinized.  We weren’t sure whether we were considered suitable owners but, after a couple of hours,  were allowed to choose one of the 3 puppies seen in the top photo – we chose the one in the middle and called him Max (the other 2 were Sophie and Sweep).  Max was a truly wonderful dog in all respects – placid, calm, friendly and superb with Miss Dancing when she arrived.  The photo above shows Max with Miss Dancing when she was small.  When she was a baby, he would support her as she learnt to sit up and provided a comfortable way for her to slide down him on her stomach.

We were told that if we needed to board Max then Wendy and Jim would have him back to stay and they charged us the absolute minimum.  We loved to go and visit them and listen to their stories and giggle with them at the antics of the dogs, horses, donkeys and cats that they had.  They seemed to have Setters coming out from everywhere – the kitchen contained I don’t know how many – instead of a fitted kitchen the under-counter cupboard area (that should have been) was full of dogs!

On one visit they had had a beautiful litter of Gordon Setters and Jim took a delighted Miss Dancing and her brother to see them.  To this day, I think she still yearns for a Gordon Setter.

Wendy taught me EXACTLY the correct way to trim an English Setter in a kindly, no-nonsense way explaining that, as they were being groomed, very often they relaxed on the table and “spread out like warm jam”.

Years later when Max died, we considered long and hard about having another dog – a decision which can never be taken lightly.  When we wanted to go ahead, it was Wendy who had tracked down a puppy and came to Plymouth with us to help make the choice.  She can be seen with me in the photo above in 1985 on our visit.  A decision also had to be made about a name for this dog and I phoned Wendy to ask whether she would mind if we named it after one of hers – Wistman – a name taken from Wistman’s Wood, an ancient oak woodland on Dartmoor. Wistman as a bigger pup is shown with us in the last photo above.

So .. my trip into the past was generated just yesterday by a BBC feature I saw, stating that “Native dog breeds such as the English Setter are being pushed towards extinction by the growing popularity of more exotic dogs such as Chihuahuas, new figures suggest. The setter, once a popular working dog, is one of the country’s oldest breeds. But statistics from the Kennel Club show a two-thirds decline in puppy registrations over the last 10 years.”

I was saddened to discover this and, after a little research, even more saddened to find out that Wendy died just before Christmas.  I last saw her about 5 or 6 years ago.  We popped in en-route to Cornwall and she was as lovely as ever “You WILL stay for lunch won’t you?  It’s only crackers and cheese”  How many times had we heard that in the past and had such a wonderful time with her.

So … this trip to that foreign country is, in fact a trip down memory lane, savouring fond memories of someone who, with her husband (who sadly pre-deceased her), made this world a better place.

Wendy was a talented artist and, over the years, we received each Christmas one of her Setter cards – I hope to recover some of the cards from the box of Christmas decorations in the loft, scan them and post a few on my blog.  I hope she wouldn’t have minded me doing that.  

This and That: An Update

I haven’t posted for a while (well since this morning Mr Dancing commented!)

I’ve just checked my camera and found these few photographs.

At long last I have sorted out the airing cupboard and culled the bed linen – most of which is now stored elsewhere (note to self: it’s in the chest of drawers in the spare bedroom).

Also a whole load of airing cupboard stuff was ditched – at last room to breathe and hopefully FIND things.

The other week, Little Man Dancing was press-ganged into a bit of washing-up (rounded soft edged items only).  As well as dish-washing, he’s very adept at putting away the shopping, brushing the floors and dusting and wiping.  What an asset!

Kizzy has to oversee what’s going on from her (rather untidy) utility room.

Little Man Dancing is now with us on a Thursday afternoon as well as all day Wednesday. Last Thursday he’d had a busy morning painting at nursery and fell asleep on the way home in the push-chair – Mr Dancing gently transferred him to his cot where he was oblivious to us removing his coat.

At last I have (almost) finished this little Guernsey sweater for LMD – just a few stitches to do on the neckline when I know it fits over his head comfortably.  I’ve just realised that it’s an identical colour to one I knitted for the Younger Mr Dancing over 30 years ago (see Teddy Bear in photo above)

Yesterday, Orange Marmalade was made from our Marmalade Kit delivered by Riverford Organic.  I didn’t have so much aggro trying to get it to set this time.  I think it was because my attention was diverted by making a sausage and bean casserole at the same time – Miss Dancing’s visit was also a welcome distraction.

Beads and sequins have arrived in the post today – so I am gearing up for the stringing of 1,000 paper cranes any day now!

The Rosy Light of Dawn

A lazy post from bed – I’ve just woken up and, inside the bedroom all is rosy from the cheerful light of “dawn”.

The view through the bedroom window tells a totally different story – pitch black at 7am with rain on the window.

The rosy lights are set to come on at 6.50am – a much happier start to the day for me, who always has trouble waking up and getting things into focus.

No time today ..

… for reading books (although I did finish the one on Eleanor Roosevelt yesterday and am now half way through The Entymologicon).

Instead, we had the pleasure of Little Man Dancing’s company all day – here he is with a vintage spinning top which is over 30 years old.  It used to belong to his “Dadda” and Auntie Dancing – for some reason it has some strands of dried spaghetti trapped inside so it rattles a bit.  I think the younger Dancings must have posted some through the holes that make the whistling noise when it spins.

So, for the record, at 18 months old, some of Little Man Dancing’s vocabulary now includes Dadda, Mumma, dog, cat, brick, Kizzy, more, one doo (one two), car, choo choo, cheese, flower, all gone, uh oh, sheep, shoe, up step, get down, and he chats away in his own amazing authoritative language gesticulating with open hands or pointed fingers, gritting his teeth dramatically when something is a bit tricky to undo and doing that on our behalf as well.  He loves it when we sing “Halfway Up the Stairs” and we all sit together on the bottom stair (cheating I know but the stairgate stops us at the moment).  He applauds us when we’ve finished and then re-arranges our sitting positions for us.

He is such a happy little man and, once again, he has been with us all day and not cried or complained once.

A Welcome Parcel on a Wet Day …

I was fortunate to have several Amazon gift vouchers for my birthday and Christmas.  After much deliberation and investigation as to which books would appeal to me, I placed my first order which arrived today.

So, on this horrid wet and windy afternoon, I started reading about Eleanor Roosevelt.  The book I chose is an edition aimed at young adults – given the vast array of books on this amazing lady, I decided to opt for this photo-biography that gave me the facts fast. There’s a very helpful reading list at the back of the book and it details the many other biographies on this ground-breaking First Lady – I think I’ll be buying another before too long.

I need to get back to the habit of reading books – hopefully, keeping a log of them will be an incentive.

Time will tell.

Who’s been sitting in my chair?

We had planned on going for a leisurely walk around the countryside park after lunch today but the weather has been atrocious – very cold, rainy and extremely blustery – so much so that our outdoor illuminated Christmas tree has been blown over several times and has now been moved to the other side of the front door where the corner of the porch is more sheltered.

So … what to do?  A boring tax form has been filled in and sent off.  Washing has been done.  Time for a blogpost.

We’ve had a really good Christmas – and I’m so pleased that my horrid hacking cough has now gone – apart from the occasional tickle.

We went to Mr Dancing’s brother’s special birthday party lunch on Tuesday and yesterday we had more of the Dancing clan over for a bit of a gathering – some eating, some just staying for a chat.

Little Man Dancing usually sits in the Red Apple Chair – here he is on Christmas Day …

Yesterday Little Man Dancing II was here

He was closely watched.

Just as well …. look what happened!

Oh Christmas Tree!

It’s a bit lop-sided but it’s been growing outside in its pot all year so we like it anyway.  The lights cast patterns similar to frost ferns on the wall and both Miss Kizzy Rascal and Little Man Dancing have admired it with respect.

I took this photo just as the light was fading on the shortest day of the year and managed to capture what seem to be the lights of another tree in the garden – I was unsure whether the camera would take the reflection of the tree lights through the double-glazing and I didn’t use the tripod for this one!

Outside another pot-grown tree guards the front door – the golden willow star is just about visible on top.

Thank you to those who revealed themselves on my last post – it was great fun – thank you for taking the time to comment.

Once again this year, I decided not to send Christmas cards and instead sent a donation to The Royal National Lifeboat Institution whose work depends entirely on voluntary contributions. This was in memory of a friend who lost her life at sea off Portland Bill almost 40 years ago, just one month after her 21st birthday.

Wishing you a very Happy Christmas and a peaceful and healthy 2012.

Reveal Yourself!

Hmmm, there was a surge of visitors to the blog yesterday and, although I can see from the blog stats who a lot of you are, it would be great if, just once, when you have read this you could reveal yourself by leaving a comment.

I know it is often a laborious job to do this so I’d also appreciate knowing how easy or tricky it is to leave a comment here.

Thank you!

(The photo of the cranes is to celebrate the fact that I have reached the 1,000 target plus a few for experimentation!  Yay!!)